Jesus teaches me, always heart-by-Heart. Never mind-by-Heart. He desires of simple heart-by-heart. He shows how this relation can be non-stop alive.
He is also in the deep sorrow when our relationship is as a routine without any feelings, but as a tradition or habit where we are impassive and blinded. Finally, the faith completely dies along the years. If she already died there is still a chance that Jesus will raise and heal. We need to open the heart! Let Christ to transform our wounds but through his Sacred Heart! Maybe, our faith still exists on the bottom of heart and is covered only by dust, so rebirth in Christ! Always heart-by-Heart!